Unbreak My Heart|Getting back to your ex partner

Are there ‘magic’ words you can use to bring about your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will motivate your ex and feel compelled to return your call. Cool huh?…I will share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from subscribers just like you that are trying to lay the foundation of getting relationship back together.

So I am going to answer…”How effect I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?” BUT…..

WARNING!

I lay out a complete strategy in the Magic of Making Up.

If you capitalise with this technique alone, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy… you may further damage your relationship more so than if they actually never returned your call.

What NOT to Say…

Before we dwell into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works. And worse…

Puts you in an ghastly ‘psychological’ position. There are two categories that usually fall into.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

“John, this is the 3rd time I have called. Please, please call me; I have to talk to you.”

And the EMERGENCY-

“Cindy, please call me as soon as you get this. This is an emergency.”

Now, you can see what the problem is with the two approaches.

So, I won’t go on and on…

How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage

There are two of the influential forces in the human mind which are;

Curiosity
Self Interest

And here’s the BIG SECRET!

With the combination of the two, you have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’. So…

For it to work EVERY TIME. Let’s have look at what to say.

In a friendly tone:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

In human nature John will find this hard to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good owing to it that it is a positive message.

Now…

Before calling, you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It doesn’t have to be big; it can be a small thing…but it needs to be plausible.

But additional importantly…

2nd WARNING!

Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

The Magic of Making Up.

If you apply this method with no underlying strategy and they call you back. You can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is…

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!